Awkwardness or Anxiety?
Social and Wardrobe Anxiety as we ease into new and old spaces.
Social and wardrobe anxiety.
Awkwardness and Anxiety around returning to in-person social interactions.
We are so used to making choices, as it’s something we do daily. We make these choices when it comes to what to eat, where to go and how to dress. However, a little over a year ago, the world in which we live changed without our consent. We didn’t choose this. The pandemic affected the world we live in, and it changed it fast.
Confinement to stay safe meant we had to adapt to the new norms, to find new ways to do things. The habits we cultivated for years were suddenly broken. Now that we’re slowly coming out of lockdown and returning to the normality we used to know, we find ourselves lost. We have to adapt again, to reshape ourselves to go back to the old habits.
With the festivities and celebrations coming up, we need to find ways to cope with the anxiety of returning to social gatherings. At MyLane, we came up with a few tips to help you out, and some wardrobe choices for you!
Where do stress and anxiety come from?
Change in itself means stress, it’s human nature. We’re scared of change, and nowadays what used to be natural has become a stressful condition for many. We’re scared of the unknown, of a disease we can’t see, and interacting with others again can be challenging.
In 2020, health became the new priority and most of us put aside the care for our appearance among other things. It oxidized the confidence in our abilities to prepare for the different social situations that surround us, turning going outside into a source of anxiety.
How can I cope with this?
This doesn't have to stop us from enjoying ourselves, but rather be a turning point to get to know ourselves better. We can work on it and understand what we need to do to reduce this feeling. Father's Day is a date on which we want to reconnect with our loved ones after the loneliness that isolation entailed. So we want to help you feel as best as possible!
Following protocols is an easy way to stay within the guidelines of what’s safe. Still wearing your mask if that makes you feel safe, is a perfectly valid wardrobe option.
Taking your time is one option - Don’t jump back to “normal” if you’re not ready for it. Adapt slowly, take one step at a time. This might mean smaller gatherings, keeping distances, or not going to as many events as you would’ve before the pandemic.
Ask for Help - Needing outside help is also valid, and many of us have turned to exercise routines, checking in with family and friends, meditation, therapy amongst a litany of other practices. Find what grounds you, and use it as a tool.
Refresh - It has been a while since most of us had to engage outside our tight night bubbles or circles and it is understandable how figuring out what to wear is enough to cancel last minute on social events. Moreover, if you feel like your social skills are worn out and need a refresh, you can check our conversation starters for whenever you feel you have little or nothing to get the conversation going.
Image or Personal Style Consultant — A search on social media platforms for terms like #personalstylist #imageconsultant should give a list of stylists who may be available for a free consultation to better understand your concerns and map out ways to celebrate your personal style.
A delightful experience to help with wardrobe anxiety.
It is now that the old question returns: What should I wear? We’ve asked ourselves this many times, and the built-up anxiety of being home for so long doesn’t help. But don't panic!
With the clothing from our new line, Uniquely & Wonderfully Made, you can feel as comfortable as you did in your PJs at home, while looking like your best self. Check a few of the recommendations our team put together so you can feel amazing and uniquely you at the same time.
1- Leggings
The flexible fabric of our Leggings will ensure that you take the comfort of home with you wherever you go. Their smooth fabric benefits all kinds of figures, highlighting the best of you. They can be combined in various ways thanks to their black and white print and will be sure to make you stand out from the crowd.
You can also find them as Capris, which are perfect for the summertime! They are breathable and comfortable, and perfect to match with high heels and a blouse for a family gathering!
2- Black & White Sports Bra
Today, more than ever, sports bras are part of our essential outfits. Going out again is already uncomfortable enough, so getting into an equally uncomfortable wired bra might not be the best choice! You can feel contained at all times with our stylish sports bras instead.
Blouses with side necklines are a perfect excuse to show the world your cute sports bra too, and they go great with both jeans or leggings. Or why not, put on a short jacket and pair it with a midi skirt to feel wonderful!
3- Baby onesie
If there are small ones in the family, why not have them look as cool as you too? Our baby onesie was created to offer the comfort of a shirt with the added benefit of not riding up.
Its print conveys the happiness and acceptance that you should have in your life, and it’s easy to combine or use as an inner layer of clothing without the top layers looking bulky. Also, this positive quote will have you smiling to yourself in no time, reminding you of all the good in this world.
4- Phone Cases & Accessories
For some added style, you can choose one of our phone cases, which have one mission: to protect your cell phone from scratches, dust, oil, and dirt.
We recommend our plump purple case for iPhone users, as the color is proven to be associated with calmness. Wearing it around when it's time to go out can be a good trick to help you relax while you're away from home.
For Samsung users, our printed case is ideal to take with you when you leave the house. It's also easy to combine with any outfit thanks to its black and white design, especially our printed leggings!
And finally, to enhance any outfit, we recommend one of our stylish and colorful scarves. They can be worn in many ways and add a splash of color and happiness to any outfit! You can find some extra tips on how to style them and other items here!
Most importantly, be you!
At Day MyLane we search to provide comfortable clothes to make you look stylish on each occasion without losing the comfort of home. And without losing the focus on you. On being authentically and unapologetically yourself.
Our new line is incredibly versatile, offering many possible combinations for your outfits, and helping you feel comfortable while looking amazing. Getting back to old routines can be a challenge, which is why Uniquely & Wonderfully Made is ready to accompany you on this adventure!
And don’t forget to check our full shop so you can find the perfect gift for the Father’s in your life too!
